Posts Tagged ‘desire’
Give a man a fish and you feed him for a day; teach a man how to fish and you feed him for a lifetime. A good teacher is a master of simplification and an enemy of simplism. What the teacher is, is more important than what he teaches. In teaching you cannot see the fruit of a day’s work. It is invisible and remains so, maybe for twenty years. A teacher who is attempting to teach without inspiring the pupil with a desire to learn is hammering on cold iron. Updated at 11:00/5th Sept/Baroda 
“One common adage on this subject that is completely wrongheaded is: you can’t go broke taking profits. That’s precisely how many traders do go broke. While amateurs go broke by taking large losses, professionals go broke by taking small profits. The problem in a nutshell is that human nature does not operate to maximize gain but rather to maximize the chance of gain. The desire to maximize the number of winning trades (or minimize the number of losing trades) works against the trader. The success rate of trades is the least important performance statistic and may even be inversely related to performance.”  Last close :10892 Yesterday written target of 10906 was achieved !! Yes ,Still our Subscribers are long !! Above 10906………………..Nonstop rally upto 10994-11023 on card. (Will Update more Details to our Subscribers )  
-Grab @ 9:00 & Go Home- Above 160 ,Grab it and Sell @ 167-168.50 level. It’s a Open Challenge to anybody in INDIA Not Today………………But in Hrs only will zoooom to kiss Rs.175+ -Buy in Truckload……………NOTHING else !! Worst is over ,We at ASR expecting some HOT NEWS……..God Pls save Bears ,Dont dare to go short !!!!! 
Again ,We like Sugar Stocks !!
-Dont remain short in SUGAR Stocks……..Unexpected move on card- (More Details to our Susbcribers ) 
Above 1017…………….Grab it !! First Hurdle @ 1025.Once crosses will take to 1039-1043 level in minutes only. Grab @ opening Bell !!! 
-Don’t remain short ,101% Cover your shorts- Above 241…will kiss 246-248.50——-252 level in hrs only (Our Subscribers are holding long in this stock and in Decline Buy it )  Yes ,Our BTST call for our Subscribers !! Above 369…………….Watch EXPLOSION. Stock will zoom to kiss 375-377 in minutes only & there after will cross 387-390+ level too. In Panic ,Buy this stock ………..Sudden spurt on card !! More Details to our Subscribers 
Great Money …Minted by our Subscribers from 922-925 to 945 in 2 sessions only.Now ,What to do ?? As expected……….Yesterday it was on FIRE. Today ,Just watch :945 level. Decisive crossover above this level with volumes will take to 959—964 level. (These levels ,I had written yesterday also…But for the traders ,I again Iam writing ..just watch 945 level )  Always REMEMBER……..Counter rally may occur after a fall !! I indicated this 2 days back and after 7 days….in last 2 session Up Up…Today or by Tomorow……..rally will fizzle out. But ,Dont trade blindly………….For God sake ! Updated at 9:03/02nd August/Baroda/India  Anticipating a signal that never comes is common for traders monitoring the market closely and eager to get some money working. For example, a good buying opportunity arises when a stock breaks from an ascending triangle. Jumping in ahead of the breakout is not an ideal situation because the probability of success buying an ascending triangle is not as good as buying a breakout from one. What causes this mistake? I think a fear of missing out on the maximum amount of profit or the fear of too much risk in buying a stock are the two most common mistakes. Essentially, the two guiding forces of the stock market are at work here; fear and greed. By buying early, we can realize a greater profit when the stock does breakout since we will have a lower average cost. Or, by buying early we can reduce risk since a breakout followed by a pull back through our stop will result in a smaller loss as we have a lower average cost. What tends to happen, however, is that the stock does not break out when expected and instead pulls back. This either leads to an unnecessary loss or an opportunity cost of the capital being tied up while other opportunities arise.
The Solution The simple and obvious solution is to wait for the entry signal, but there are also some things you can do to help yourself stay disciplined. Rather than watch potentially good stocks tick by tick, use an alarm feature to alert you to when they actually make the break. Watching stocks constantly is somewhat hypnotic, and I think the charts can talk you in to making a trade. However, letting the computer watch the stock may help you avoid the stock’s evil trance. Another good solution is to focus on different thoughts when considering a stock. Don’t think about potential profits, don’t think about minimizing losses. Instead, focus in on the desire to execute high probability trades. It takes time to reprogram yourself, so persevere.  What you believe, consciously or unconsciously, propels your trading in its many directions. It might be so simple a matter as whether you believe a market is going up or down or nowhere. Traders have biases that distort their perceptions and effect their actions, and they need to guard against these with various protections and bias detectors.
Other beliefs are more veiled and ubiquitous. For example, you may consciously intend to make money, but you have a counter impulse that thwarts you due to unconscious beliefs that go against that intention. Perhaps you unconsciously believe that money is the root of all evil, or that rich people are corrupt, or that there isn’t enough to go around and so you shouldn’t be greedy, or that you should be laying up your treasure in heaven, and not on this earth. Perhaps on some level you believe you shouldn’t make more money than your parents. When you want something, you have to really want it and not be ambivalent about it. It has to be your desire, and not some alien value set by your parents or society. The flower loves the sun, and stretches to receive its rays. The plant loves water and digs its roots deep seeking the object of its desire. If you want to make money trading, you really have to admire money and have good purposes for its use. If you want to be a master trader, you have to be comfortable with that role, and not see trading as wasteful gambling, or an unworthy profession. Perhaps you believe that you don’t deserve to make money trading, or that you have to work hard for your rewards. Maybe you believe that only the big boys win, that the market is stacked against the ordinary trader. Maybe you believe that it’s impossible to make money in the futures markets or, worse, any market. Maybe you believe it’s possible to make money trading, but it’s not probable that you can keep your winnings. All such ideas run in opposition to easy and effective trading. Just as insidiously you may doubt that your system really works, or that it won’t work this time. Some traders get superstitious: for example, they believe that they always, or tend to, lose money on Fridays, and so, of course, they do. When any of their superstitious factors occur, somehow they manage to lose.  According to Plutarch, “Courage stands halfway between cowardice and rashness…” Clearly, we don’t want to be reckless; and clearly, we don’t want to be hesitant and timid. What we need is a balance. As we go about our trading moderating our greed and our fear to a combination of healthy desire and clear minded caution, we use courage to go forward.
Courage doesn’t mean closing your eyes, holding your nose, and jumping into the deep end. It does mean moving forward with clean and clear perception as well as steadfastness of purpose. You don’t need courage if you’re totally confident and unafraid. Courage, according to John Wayne, is being scared to death and saddling up anyway. Because people tend to fear the unknown, and the unknown is all that is certain about any given trade, we need to employ courage. Since trading is always new, since anything can happen and it often does, since the wildness lies in wait, we need to overcome uncertainty and fear so that we can appropriately enter, exit, and remain in trades. When asked what he meant by “guts”, Ernest Hemingway told Dorothy Parker in an interview “grace under pressure”. Trading is all about grace and gracefulness under pressure. The good news is that courage is like any muscle. It grows and becomes stronger the more you use it. Often as I trade I’m unaware of utilizing courage. I know I’m extremely alert. I may even be excited. I’m not aware of any fear until something starts to go wrong. However, that alertness and excitement is a product of adrenalin running. Excitement or fear comes from the interpretation you give to the adrenalin high. The more you act as if you’re unafraid, the less afraid you become. It all gets easier. Act the part and become the part. Make it your goal to trade with increasing grace under pressure. The difference between excitement and fear depends of what you are imagining. Are you imagining loss or are you imagining profit? Of course, you always have to keep the alternative in mind as trading is all about balancing the alternatives, profit with loss. But you don’t have to put loss into the foreground of your mind, because you never would put on a trade unless profit was the probable outcome. Direct your imagination towards profit, and suspend all thoughts of loss–once you’ve put your stops in. “Don’t cry before you’re hurt.” says a proverb. I would add, don’t mourn a loss before you experience it. Don’t even mourn it after you take it, get on with the next trade, and the next, and the next. Anticipate profit. That’s what you’re there to experience. Ah yes, and as another proverb states: “Fortune favors the brave.”  The tape tells the truth, but often there is a lie buried in the human interpretation
~~Jesse Livermore~~
Your human nature prepares you to give up your independence under stress. when you put on a trade, you feel the desire to imitate others and overlook objective trading signals. This is why you need to develop and follow trading systems and money management rules. They represent your rational individual decisions, made before you enter a trade and become a crowd member.
~~A. Elder~~
Charts not only tell what was, they tell what is; and a trend from was to is (projected linearly into the will be) contains better percentages than clumsy guessing
~~R. A. Levy~~
The biggest risk in trading is missing major opportunities, most of enormous gains on my accounts came from 5% of trades.
~~Richard Dennis~~
Take every gain without showing remorse about missed profits, because an eel may escape sooner than you think
~~Joseph de la Vega~~
Losing is part of trading. The best traders don’t get perturbed by losing trades, since over the long run they know they will be successful more often than not. When you are afraid of losing, you end up losing or missing opportunities because you are afraid to trade.
~~Trading to Win, Ari Kiev~~
In trading, the vast market consists of neophytes who are looking for magical answers to make lots of money quickly and with little risk. They want specific ideas. They want to be told exactly what to do. Those looking for such things will not find them. They will not be successful as long as they continue to favor the easy over the
truth.
~~Curtis Faith ~~
The difficulty in trading lies not in the concepts but in the application.
Curtis M. Faith  According to Plutarch, “Courage stands halfway between cowardice and rashness…” Clearly, we don’t want to be reckless; and clearly, we don’t want to be hesitant and timid. What we need is a balance. As we go about our trading moderating our greed and our fear to a combination of healthy desire and clear minded caution, we use courage to go forward.
Courage doesn’t mean closing your eyes, holding your nose, and jumping into the deep end. It does mean moving forward with clean and clear perception as well as steadfastness of purpose. You don’t need courage if you’re totally confident and unafraid. Courage, according to John Wayne, is being scared to death and saddling up anyway. Because people tend to fear the unknown, and the unknown is all that is certain about any given trade, we need to employ courage. Since trading is always new, since anything can happen and it often does, since the wildness lies in wait, we need to overcome uncertainty and fear so that we can appropriately enter, exit, and remain in trades. When asked what he meant by “guts”, Ernest Hemingway told Dorothy Parker in an interview “grace under pressure”. Trading is all about grace and gracefulness under pressure. The good news is that courage is like any muscle. It grows and becomes stronger the more you use it. Often as I trade I’m unaware of utilizing courage. I know I’m extremely alert. I may even be excited. I’m not aware of any fear until something starts to go wrong. However, that alertness and excitement is a product of adrenalin running. Excitement or fear comes from the interpretation you give to the adrenalin high. The more you act as if you’re unafraid, the less afraid you become. It all gets easier. Act the part and become the part. Make it your goal to trade with increasing grace under pressure. The difference between excitement and fear depends of what you are imagining. Are you imagining loss or are you imagining profit? Of course, you always have to keep the alternative in mind as trading is all about balancing the alternatives, profit with loss. But you don’t have to put loss into the foreground of your mind, because you never would put on a trade unless profit was the probable outcome. Direct your imagination towards profit, and suspend all thoughts of loss–once you’ve put your stops in. “Don’t cry before you’re hurt.” says a proverb. I would add, don’t mourn a loss before you experience it. Don’t even mourn it after you take it, get on with the next trade, and the next, and the next. Anticipate profit. That’s what you’re there to experience. Ah yes, and as another proverb states: “Fortune favors the brave.”  1. “I can’t commit to this as I have other priorities at the moment.”
If you are too busy to engage in the request/offer, this will be applicable. This lets the person know your plate is full at the moment, so he/she should hold off on this as well as future requests. If it makes it easier, you can also share what you’re working on so the person can understand better. I use this when I have too many commitments to attend to. 2. “Now’s not a good time as I’m in the middle of something. How about we reconnect at X time?” It’s common to get sudden requests for help when you are in the middle of something. Sometimes I get phone calls from friends or associates when I’m in a meeting or doing important work. This method is a great way to (temporarily) hold off the request. First, you let the person know it’s not a good time as you are doing something. Secondly, you make known your desire to help by suggesting another time (at your convenience). This way, the person doesn’t feel blown off. 3. “I’d love to do this, but …” I often use this as it’s a gentle way of breaking no to the other party. It’s encouraging as it lets the person know you like the idea (of course, only say this if you do like it) and there’s nothing wrong about it. I often get collaboration proposals from fellow bloggers and business associates which I can’t participate in and I use this method to gently say no. Their ideas are absolutely great, but I can’t take part due to other reasons such as prior commitments (#1) or different needs (#5). 4. “Let me think about it first and I’ll get back to you.” This is more like a “Maybe” than a straight out “No”. If you are interested but you don’t want to say ‘yes’ just yet, use this. Sometimes I’m pitched a great idea which meets my needs, but I want to hold off on committing as I want some time to think first. There are times when new considerations pop in and I want to be certain of the decision before committing myself. If the person is sincere about the request, he/she will be more than happy to wait a short while. Specify a date / time-range (say, in 1-2 weeks) where the person can expect a reply. If you’re not interested in what the person has to offer at all, don’t lead him/her on. Use methods #5, #6 or #7 which are definitive. 5. “This doesn’t meet my needs now but I’ll be sure to keep you in mind.” If someone is pitching a deal/opportunity which isn’t what you are looking for, let him/her know straight-out that it doesn’t meet your needs. Otherwise, the discussion can drag on longer than it should. It helps as the person know it’s nothing wrong about what he/she is offering, but that you are looking for something else. At the same time, by saying you’ll keep him/her in mind, it signals you are open to future opportunities. Read more…  “One adage that is completely wrongheaded is that you can’t go broke taking profits. That’s precisely how many traders do go broke. While amateurs go broke taking large losses, professionals go broke by taking small profits. What feels good is often the wrong thing to do. Human nature does not operate to maximize gain but rather to maximize the chance of a gain. The desire to maximize the number of winning trades (or minimize the number of losing trades) works against the trader. The success rate of trades is the least important performance statistic and may even be inversely related to performance. Two of the cardinal sins of trading – giving losses too much rope and taking profits prematurely – are both attempts to make current positions more likely to succeed, to the severe detriment of long-term performance. Don’t think about what the market’s going to do; you have absolutely no control over that.
Think about what you’re going to do if it gets there. It is a common notion that after you have profits from your original equity, you can start taking even greater risks because now you are playing with “their money”. We are sure you have heard this.
Once you have profit, you’re playing with “their money”. It’s a comforting thought. It certainly can’t be as bad to lose “their money” as “yours”? Right? Wrong. Why should it matter whom the money used to belong to? What matters is who it belongs to now and what to do about it. And in this case it all belongs to you.”
 
 If you are ‘in pain’ regarding trading, what is driving you is some other desire not directly connected to trading. You are trying to fix another area of your life that you are unsatisfied with (your job, your relationship, a debt, etc) – and you have projected this onto trading as the solution to your problems. You have to just let this go, stop doing it. If you do this, you are dead as disco. Give yourself a massive time window, the same as it takes to get a PHd.
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